My partner and I have been dating for over a year, and rather early on it became apparent to me that the thought of anyone (myself included) pressuring her for sex at all was incredibly bothersome.  It would be so horrible for that to happen to someone I care so much about.  For me, this has heavily overridden whatever sexual desires I may have ever had for her, which certainly makes the decision for a permanently abstinent romance easy.  Has anyone else found that to be the case?